Saturday, March 10, 2012

Living Selflessly Instead of Selfishly


                God has really been dealing with me of late on living a selfless lifestyle. Society lives in a very selfish lifestyle, with a “me” attitude.  I began to wonder, what if Jesus lived with such an attitude? Where would we be? How would we live? How would we survive? How would grace abound? It put me in a fearful state of bewilderment. I could not really even fathom not being able to live a life without grace and mercy. Without His mercy I am condemned to hell, and am not pure through anything. I started to really come to a deeper understanding of how important Christ’s act of love was, and how selfish I truly am. I say that I live for others, but most times I unconsciously act selfishly. God has really tested me in this area just this week, and I am so joyful for His testing. His testing is like a refining fire that takes out all of my impurities, and in the end I get another injection of Him in my heart. Testing really shows what a man is made of. Going through things in life show people’s true character, and how much they truly have faith in God.  I cannot reiterate enough how much I enjoy the storms. I know that sounds a bit obtuse, but beloved we need to gain a revelation of His heart through testing. He tests us so that in doing so, when we pass we can move on to greater things in Him. Through each trial comes great victory, and through great victory comes an inherited promise.
                Gaining an understanding of the love that God has for you really opens a door that leads to a selfless lifestyle. The most used scripture John 3:16 has become so watered down by society that people do not have the revelation of the weight that it carries. John 3:16 is one of the most foundational principles of being a follower of Christ, and is so loosely quoted. It not only sickens me to the pit of my Spirit, but it breaks my heart to see such an impactful scripture become a fading fad.
John 3:16
16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
                This scripture shares the most selfless act that was ever committed in this world. God Himself showed us how live by example and not by word only. God gave His Son whom He loved for us, so that we can have eternal life. God doesn’t even know all of us. Do not get me wrong He knows all of us, even every hair on our head, but there is a difference between knowing about us and knowing who we are. What I meant by that is that He does not have a personal relationship with all of us which is solely our fault. He had His Son die for us with the full knowledge that some of the people that He did this for were never going to appreciate the act, or even try to build a relationship with Him. If that isn’t an act of selflessness I am unsure what is. People tend to do things for others with an expectancy of getting something in return. God has pulled on my heart towards doing things for others just to show them the love of Christ. Christ went through one of the most horrendous deaths on the cross out of love for people that He had never met. Wow! Think about that reality. Think about putting yourself in that martyrdom position, dying for others that you did not even know just out of a heart of love. He loves us so much He selflessly gave His life up for all of us. I tell people that if I was Christ we would be screwed. I am not going to lie I do not think I am at the point of going through such a horrific endeavor for mankind. I would have quit after the first two slashes of the whip. Christ was so selfless. We are so selfish that if something doesn’t benefit us we won’t do it.
                A few examples of things God had me do this week include driving to go get somebody whose car broke down and hour away, then proceeding to push that car on a trailer all the while letting somebody borrow my truck which is a rarity for me. Then He had me the very next day drive somebody to work, and pick up their dogs from the groomers to drive back home. Normally driving does not bother me , but living in the middle of nowhere means that you have to drive close to 30 miles to get somewhere. Finally, today I drove somebody into town again and on the way home there was a young lady whose vehicle was broken down. I usually do not stop for anybody, due to my selfish mindset of “what an inconvenience”, but the Holy Spirit unctioned me to stop so I did. She had ran out of gas, so I drove back into town, stopped at Wal-Mart to let her get a gas can, and then after we filled it up back to her car. Gas pouring down my hands and pant legs, I filled her car up then it would not start. I refused to leave her and her kids and mother stranded on the side of the road. I had no jumper cables for after all of that her battery had died. So I proceeded to drive back home to get jumper cables, but she called me and told me a police officer had helped her. I say all of that to say that I did not want to do any of the things above, but did them because I actually thought “I am going to be selfish at this moment or live unselfishly?” I am by no means bragging or trying to build any of you to believe that I am some great person, because really all of those acts were nothing major compared to what He did for us. I can do nothing compared to what He has done for me. I am just tired of living a selfish lifestyle, and am burning to learn to live as selflessly as He did. I thank Him for giving me opportunities to be tested in this area, and long for more testing so that in doing so I can get closer to Him which in return makes me like Him. My ultimate goal is to truly live for others as a servant to His people as He had intended it to be. This does not mean I am to be walked over or taken advantage of, but to be able to show people what the love of God truly is. Back to John 3:16 for a moment, my favorite words in that scripture are love and gave. When you love Him you love others. When you give time to Him you give time to others. I want to walk in such fullness in Him that I live to love and live to give. There needs to be a balance in that area of your life and with testing will balance will follow.
The true character of a man comes when nobody is looking. I do not personally like praise from others, because it allows too much pride to come into my life as if I did something great. It is God that graces me to all things through Him, and He deserves all credit for anything I do in my life. It is only through Christ that I could act unselfishly this week. Trust me, my human thought process was against it all, but in God I am an overcomer of all things. Selflessness is not something I want to do for a week, but I long to live this way for a lifetime. It is going to take much testing and if I lose sight of Him through that testing I will more than likely fail. It is only when we keep our eyes fixated on God that we can overcome adversity, and we will be greatly rewarded for it later.
Hebrews 6:10-12
10 For God is not unjust to forget your work and labor of love which you have shown toward His name, in that you have ministered to the saints, and do minister.
11 And we desire that each one of you show the same diligence to the full assurance of hope until the end,
12 that you do not become sluggish, but imitate those who through faith and patience inherit the promises.
13 For when God made a promise to Abraham, because He could swear by no one greater, He swore by Himself,
14 saying, "Surely blessing I will bless you, and multiplying I will multiply you."
15 And so, after he had patiently endured, he obtained the promise.
                God has really highlighted this scripture to me this week as well as John 3:16. I know this scripture is a bit off topic, but bear with me. It says in verse 10 that God never forgets are works of love that we do toward His name. I love how it puts the word love in there. It does not say that He doesn’t forget your works, but your works of love. We must do everything with a loving heart out of selflessness. We are to do all things unto the Lord not unto ourselves (Philippians 4:13). We are to do acts of love to the Lord to minister to others. The word minister in the Greek in Hebrew means to serve. To be a minister is to serve. I think a lot of ministers need to gain that revelation. I do not have the time or space to really touch on that but just know to minister, which all of us are to do, is to serve. Then Paul states in verse 11 that he desires for us to keep this servant of love mentality until our very death. Living selflessly is not just a whimsical moment, but a lifestyle. Verse 12 states that we are not to get lazy, or become as an illegitimate child as it says in the Greek and Hebrew. We are to not be unrighteous in our walk or serving, but if we do slip away to look at those and imitate who through faith and patience inherit the promises of God. I want to be an example for others how to walk in faith in patience to obtain His promises for us. I do not want this for selfish purposes, but that in doing so I can show others who Christ is in hope of changing this world. We are to not grow impatient, but to trust that God sees all that we do and do everything with a loving heart. Paul then uses Abraham and his life as an example how to do so. Abraham had a promise from God and patiently waited 25 years to obtain the promise that God had for Him. What an example! I do not know if I could wait 25 years to obtain a promise from God. I guess I would have no choice, but I am sure I would not do it with such a patient enduring heart.
                I love each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart, and I thank you for being patient with me while I allow Him to have His perfect work in me. I long for each of you to chase Him with as much passion as He chases you with. I long that each of you throw yourselves on the altar so that He can replace you with Him. I urge you to get into the Word, which is the book of Promises and Life. Through knowledge of the Word no storm can shake you. Yet again I love y’all. Be blessed.
                God is so good. I just want to thank Him and give Him all the glory again for allowing me to be tested in this area which I lack. I pray that all of you being to gain this revelation that He longs to share with us on how we can live selfless lifestyles of love for other through action and not word. Allow your hearts to be open to taking time out of your day to do something that benefits somebody else instead of yourself, and what how God begins to bless your life. He longs to bless us! He longs to love us! We just need to allow Him to have His perfect work in us. I pray again that You search us thoroughly God, test and try our heart. Break us, shape us, and mold us into the vessels that you see us as, perfected in You. O, how I love God. O, how I long to see every beautiful facet that He has for me to see. He is the wonderful One, the King of Kings, the Lord of Lords, the High and Exalted One, the One who sits on the throne; He is the God of Promises, and the Alpha and Omega. 

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